To: Guardians of Female Chastity and other assorted Pervert Prudes
re: Ride stops at the elbow
Ye Guardians of Female Chastity―
My entire life, I’ve been told to fear you in one way or another. I’ve been told to cover my body as to not distract you in school, to cover my body to help avoid unwanted advances or comments, to cover my body as to not tempt you to sexually assault me, to reject your unwanted advances politely as to not anger you. I’ve been taught to never walk alone at night, to hold my keys in my fist while walking in parking lots, to check the backseat of my car, to not drink too much because you might take advantage of me. I’ve been told what I should and shouldn’t do with my body as to not jeopardize my relationships with you.
I’ve been warned not to emasculate you, to let “boys be boys,” to protect your fragile ego and to not tread on your even more fragile masculinity. I’ve been taught to keep my emotions in check, to let you be the unit of measure for how much emotion is appropriate and to adjust my emotions accordingly. I’ve been taught that you’re allowed to categorize women into mothers/sisters/girlfriends/wives/daughters but any woman outside of your protected categories is fair game.
So to those of you who think you’re being helpful by “protecting” me and my fellow women, you’re like a shark sitting in the lifeguard chair. I wasn’t uncomfortable until you showed up at the pool and the only potential predator I see is you.
Your mothers, sisters, girlfriends, wives and daughters don’t need you to walk them to the bathroom for safety.
―it is time to go fuck yourselves.
Quick show of hands, who among you doesn’t recognize that the Gay Fray itself is, ultimately, entirely about women? That is to say, the rest of us are aware there is a reason pervert prudes are so pissed they’re stalking and harassing women in bathrooms.
Okay, no, really, just stop and think about it for a minute.
Women do not need your permission to urinate. They do not need your permission to defecate.
You should not need to be told this.
Rose-Hodge, Kasey. “Dear Creepy Heterosexual Men Guarding Our Bathrooms”. The Huffington Post. 23 May 2016.